“Fake news” has destroyed our ability to talk to each other, and I’m sick of it. Once exploited as a money-making scheme by Macedonian teenagers (I’m not kidding; read this), it was turned into a political weapon and is now laced into the fabric of nearly every conversation that we have. The idea of “fake news” has permeated what we believe and don’t believe, to the point that we’re arguing with family members, dear friends, and even science! We’ve gone insane, and it’s making how we negotiate even more difficult.
“Fake news” is a symptom of a bigger problem — the ability for us to have our own facts. Somewhere along the way, we decided that the facts we all knew were no longer reliable and we needed our own set of facts (this is how you can get into a debate that 2 + 2 doesn’t equal 4!).
Daniel Patrick Moynihan famously said, “Everyone is entitled to his own opinion, but not to his own facts.” He articulated something that we all knew and, in the years since, have believed to be true . . . until recently. Now, we believe that “everyone is entitled to their own opinion and facts.” Let me just say this: no, we’re not!
Merriam-Webster defines a fact as “a piece of information presented as having objective reality.” Herein lies the problem: We’ve allowed objectivity to be replaced by subjectivity.
The reason this makes negotiating more difficult is that you not only have to discern between opinion and fact, but you also have to assess the subjective reality of the facts presented. Failure to do so can lead to misunderstandings, bad assumptions, incongruent narratives, and a general lack of alignment. However, the reality is that you’ll probably run into situations in which their facts are different from your facts. So, what do you do?
While you might be tempted to scream, “Fake news!” I would do something different:
I have a feeling that we’ll be stuck with “fake news” for some time. In the meantime, be sure to research, refer to credible sources, and fact-check. If we all do a little more of that, then we can lessen the impact of subjective facts. (OK, I’m off the soapbox now.)
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About the author:
Sure, we could whip up a snappy bio about Brian’s experience as an entrepreneur, business owner, and Fortune 500 executive. While we’re at it, we could go on for an afternoon about his 20 years in marketing and advertising, developing brilliant consumer-engagement strategies for the likes of Google, Amazon, Samsung, Virgin Mobile, Microsoft, and Sony. But knowing Brian, he’d rather we not. Instead, he’d likely ask us to focus on something else — namely, other people ...